Ok here’s something I haven’t come across in ALI forums or blogs. Hubster is incredibly supportive of me during this process and I am so stinkin thankful! But one thing that’s come up is the fact that he doesn’t share his pain because he doesn’t want to make it harder on me. And when I’m the most heartbroken, I know he is too. I never knew a man could have a biological clock and want children as much as a woman (can you tell I grew up in a “broken” home lol!) so to see my wonderful husband hurt…I don’t know. I just want to find some way to comfort him. He’s interested in blogging some, but I can’t seem to find a community of men (weird, right? it’s not like we socialize men to hide their feelings and keep everything bottled up, do we?!?) for him.
Usually when Hubster is having a hard time or upset about something, he completely opens up to me. But he won’t about this.